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Holy Family - A Supreme Model

From Joseph we learn that we should not put to shame the wife whom God gives. Joseph "did not want to disgrace Mary"(Mt.1:19).  

by Fr. Martin Kalamparambil V.C.

There are many people who do not have a definite knowledge about how to be a good father or an ideal mother, or how to bring up children in the proper way. The Bible contains sufficient teaching in order to create a holy atmosphere in the home. God gives us the Holy Family as a model.

We find the example of an ideal family in Jesus, Mary and Joseph. If we watch them and listen to them carefully we can lead a good family life. Joseph accepted Mary as his wife knowing that it was the will of God. A good husband is the one who seeks God's will. From Joseph we learn that we should not put to shame the wife whom God gives. Joseph "did not want to disgrace Mary"(Mt.1:19). The husband is bound to accept as wife the woman whom God gives him. In time of doubt without giving in to grief Joseph prayed to God. God intervened and removed his doubts. When doubts or suspicions arise in a family the husband as well as the wife should listen to the voice of God.

Having heard God's voice, in spite of great sacrifice, Joseph took Mary and infant Jesus into exile in Egypt. He did not grumble. Being the head of the family Joseph had to select the place God showed him in order to save the mother and child from the hands of the enemy. In the same way every head of the family ought to protect the members of his family from dangers. He should keep them away from places that may be detrimental to their innocence, from friends and neighbours who may lead them to sin.

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If you lead a family life in this manner your children will be blessed. Through your children you and your posterity will receive glory before God.
 
When God spoke through her husband Mary obeyed him and took the child and went with him to Egypt. An ideal wife should pray to God to grant through the husband proper place, environment and protection needed for the family. Both Mary and Joseph went together to present Jesus in the Temple. From this we learn that parents should be united in bringing children according to Divine Will. It is good for children's spiritual growth if parents accompany the children in going to Church festivals. "They went to the festival as usual"(Lk.2:42).

The parents must pray and make sincere effort to instill in their children interest and attraction for holy matters. Instruct them in divine things from their childhood. When Jesus was only twelve years of age the temple authorities were dismayed at his replies. Later He had to face a lot of trials. Like Jesus up to about thirty years children will go through severe trials and temptations. They will have to face temptations from the devil, from worldly desires, greed for power and concupiscence of the flesh.

In these circumstances the parents must be there to strengthen the children. It is necessary that parents should help, protect and pray for the children to overcome the devil's temptations. They must stand by them in their success and failures. Mary was with Jesus during his ministry and His passion and death. The Word of God and the help of the Holy Spirit are necessary to overcome the devil. Children must be taught and reminded of the desert experience of Jesus.

If you lead a family life in this manner your children will be blessed. Through your children you and your posterity will receive glory before God. There has never been a son like Jesus; and there have never been parents comparable to those of Jesus. Try to bring up your children in the Love of God like Jesus and pray for the fruits of divine grace.
"They went to the festival as usual"(Lk.2:42).
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